
Saturday, October 25, 2008
i'm being random here.
cause i'm bored bored bored :X
I seriously feel there's not point to be in a relationship,
when 1 PARTY does not want to give in,
& always letting another PARTY to give in.
when 1 PARTY alway shows attitude,
while another PARTY tolerate.
when 1 PARTY acting ignorance, being angry and emo over all this shyt. while another PARTY trying to find ways to solve the problem.
when 1 PARTY's being demanding,
when another PARTY take it despite too demanding.
.
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whatever it is, it takes 2 hands to clap in a relationship. it's not the matter of how much excuses u gave..
it's not the matter of how much blame to push..
it's not the matter of how much you give in..
it's not the matter of how you want him/her to change..
it's not the matter of how you control over him/her..
it's the matter of YOU YOU YORSELVES.
why not do some reflection on how you stand in a relationship??
why do you show attitude whenever you want??
why do you want him/her to change to be the one you want??
[no one's is perfect, love him/her for who they are]
why do you want to control him/her??
[the more you control, the more he/she is gonna run away from this relationship]
why do you want to push blame??
[just say sorry when it's your fault. no point showing attitude]
why do you want to give excuses or make he/her friend the scapegoat when disputes arises??
Seriously, if you think you are that good then all this will not happen. i don't believe you can handle well in a relationship and never will, unless he/she changes. if this goes on, i swear both relationship and friendship will be GONE.
if you can't handle, then go for some psychology talk, which i think will be beneficial :X
♥our lips must always be sealed
5:44 PM